Personal Commandments
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Be the kind of man I want my sons to be.
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Live life full throttle.
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Conquer your bucket list.
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Try a lot of stuff, keep what works.
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All life is an experiment.
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Live life intensely curious.
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Joy is proportionate to your level of gratitude.
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When you get inspired leverage it to the hilt.
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Have a strong bias toward action; be known as a person of action.
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Focus: 20% of your inputs drive 80% of your outputs.
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Prioritization: focus on the things that matter most
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Work only on things that make a great deal of difference if you succeed.
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The best way to predict the future is to create it.
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Work harder on yourself than you do on your job.
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You are the same today as you will be in 5 years except for the people you meet and the books you read.
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Take advantage of every speaking opportunity & over-prepare for it.
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Believe that your self-made habits will determine you future success.
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Don’t believe in words—only believe in behaviors.
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Courage: resolve to do 1 thing every day that you fear, bust out of your comfort zones.
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Self-discipline is the #1 delineating factor between high achievers and low achievers.
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Discipline not desire determines our destiny.
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What you do everyday matters more than what you do once in a while.
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Life is a series of daily habits.
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Generosity: he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.
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Lord, give me the wisdom to know the right things to do and the courage to do them.
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Character is the will to do what is right even when it is hard.
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Talent & determination determine your potential, character determines your legacy.
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Parenting: more is caught than taught.
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Parenting: who you are matters more than what you do.
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Your child’s character hinges on the traits you exhibit as a parent.
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No amount of success at work can make up for failure at home.
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The greatest gift I can give my kids is a healthy marriage.
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Marriage: find the most generous explanation for each other’s behavior and believe it.
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Wise people build their lives around what is eternal and squeeze in what is temporary.
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Leadership: get the right people on the bus.
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What gets measured and rewarded gets done.
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Play to your strengths and delegate your weaknesses.
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Study top performers and model their habits.
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Self reliance: I own the problem, I own the solution.
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Leaders are readers…we are what we read.
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Leadership = influence
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Speed of the leader = speed of the team.
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You become like the five people you associate with the most.
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The signature of your work & vitality of your network will determine your professional fate.
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Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I choose to respond to it.
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Refusal to take risk makes for a life of mediocrity at best.
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Business owner mentality; always try to make decisions as if you owned the business.
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2 Keys to Leadership: leaders cast bold visions and leaders make big asks.
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Negotiation: there is 1 key principle; the person who has more options has more power.
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The good things in life are often the enemy of the best things in life.